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PAGE 2A HERITAGE FLORIDA JEWISH NEWS, MARCH 22, 2019 Digital & Offset Printing ~ : Brochures & Booklets Direct Mail Services Forms & Letterheads Envelopes Business Cards 205 North Street Long~vood, FL 32750 Bring in this ad and receive 18% Discount Shown here (l-r): Allison Lessne, Rose Dorval, Marilyne Polyne, author Yvonne David, Frantz Timothee, Iris Rodriguez and Dr. Susan A. Bach, Ph.D. By Pamela Ruben "Gratitude. Mindfulness. Community Engagement." These are just some of the merits, which Dr. Susan A. Bach, Ph.D formerly the ex- ecutive director of the Center for Leadership Development at Rollins College Crummer Graduate School of Business, has been imparting on her more than a dozen students enrolled in the two- to- four- year leadership program. With an upcoming assign- ment on the theme of forgive- ness, Bach brought in Orlando area author Yvonne David as an authority on the subject. David's award-winning book, "Out of the Apple Orchard" (Book 1 of a 4-part series), features forgiveness as a central theme (from a Jew- ish lens), emphasizing that the totality of our lives is not measured by our mistakes (or those of others). Her upcom- ing book, "The Night Sky Lined with Silver," Book 2 in The Apple Tree Series, focuses on life-learning lessons from challenging situations. Leadership development workshops meet monthly and start with a "mindful break- fast," which the students have learned to facilitate. David was able to take part in this past month's "mindful breakfast," observing the thoughtful insights discussed by the students with guidance from Dr. Bach. Student Marilyne Polyne took a moment to appreciate the food on her plate, noting the value of assessing how each type of food "makes you feel." She remarked, "Staying mindful (in all aspects of life) allows you to make better decisions." Adding to the conversa- tion, the author commented, "Today, we are going to discover how making a dif- ference through creative expression can break certain barriers for leadership de- velopment. It is my goal to enhance these good decisions and insights made through- out this session." As David shared her book with the exquisite illustra- tions by international artist, Lyn Rodden, she commented, "What may seem like a sim- plistic children's book on the surface deals with the deeper themes of how to handle mis- takes, being wronged, asking for and granting forgiveness, and making up for your wrongdoings. We are going to examine poignant examples and take the lessons learned in my book, 'Out of the Apple Orchard,' to help solve prob- lems in our own lives. These are essential tools to pave the way towards leadership development." David went on to sum- marize "Out of the Apple Orchard," a story which takes place in the fall of 1910 after the Bieman family moves to Mountaindale, a hamlet in the Catskills, from the Lower East Side of New York City. The move allows the ailing father to take advantage of the fresh mountain air. With Papa too sick to work and food a scarcity, a hungry 12-year- old Adam Bieman is tempted by the apples in the nearby Friedland orchard. David shares, "This engag- ing American tale, interwoven with historical details about the Catskills, cap- tures the essence of the Jewish High Holidays. When trouble begins to multiply for Adam, can he learn to ask for forgive- ness, make amends, and start anew?" Rather than presenting through a "PowerPoint," David chose to interact with the students by sharing Rod- den's pen and ink paintings. She stated, "In 1910 when the book was set, there were no computers, so I am going to go old-school and show each of you the illustration one-on-one." This individual and important face-to-face communication, interacting with each student, enhanced engagement. By helping the students share connections, everyone met the author in an up-close and personal way. Engaging in a conversation with Holt School students, David shared the book's "cen- tral mistake" which is made when Adam pilfers apples from the orchard. She remarks, "Nobody likes to admit that they made a mistake. But it is not a sign of weakness. Nor is asking for help a sign of weakness." To create connectivity to the situation, the students were divided into pairs to discuss mistakes of their own. Freshman Samantha Guillaume shared an incident from her middle school years when she wore "wedgie san- dais" to school, because she was so excited by the prospect of having new, stylish shoes. Later, she suffered as she tripped in a classroom line, her ankles giving out from her poor choice of dress.While her "pridefulness" had gotten the better of her, she realized there was value in the requi- site gym shoes. Guillaume commented, "The activities Yvonne David had us do has caused me to realize a lot of reflection I need to do with my own life." The British-born author shared mistakes from her own life, amongst them struggling and failing English Literature A-Level in London, the equivalent of a first-year university course. At that time, she was feeling very poorly about her own self- worth. After moving to the States, David enrolled in the Hamilton Holt School at Rol- lins College at the right time in her life and earned a degree in English and Organizational Communication, graduating summa cum laude. David shared the origin of her book series, explaining that the story of the Bieman family came to her one night while unable to sleep. She arose in the pre-dawn hours and put together an outline of the main character, Adam Bieman. In her mind, he was wearing a cap and knickerbockers from the early 1900s. His thoughts and actions would become the cornerstone of a series that promoted the concept of problem-solving through storytelling, as well as shar- ing immigrant stories and life lessons from a Jewish lens. The leadership students be- came passionate about the di- lemma presented in the book. Honing their problem-solving skills, the students engaged in a conversation not only about "the mistake," but also about the value and importance of forgiveness. Initially, Farmer Friedland is quite angry about his loss of apples, especially after he falls from a ladder while trying to reach apples higher on the tree. In the story, Adam seeks guidance from his rabbi, who suggests he ask the farmer for forgiveness three times. Eventually, Adam and the farmer reach an understand- ing, where Adam atones for his wrongdoing by picking apples for the injured farmer. "You see, if I held the anger in my heart, it would make me revengeful and unhappy. It would have made me sick, too. Like eating a bad apple," David quoted from her book. Holt student Iris Rodriguez pointed out that Adam needed not only forgiveness from the farmer, but also forgiveness from his own-self. "Otherwise you are hurting yourself by constantly thinking about the moment." Students Rose "Gabby" Dorval and Allison Lessne discussed feelings of "empathy, self-reflection, and compassion." Another student, Frantz Timothee, felt deeply for both parties. He explained, he could empathize with the hungry child and the disappointed/angry farmer. He felt each side was deserving of reflection, as sometimes when we are wronged, we have outsized reactions. Bach brought mindfulness back to the table. Comment- ing, "Often we live our lives in a rush. Taking a step back helps us break our life into a series of meaningful mo- ments. Most situations evoke reactions. These quick reac- tions (like the farmer's anger) are driven by emotions rather than reason. Mindfulness allows us to pause and our reactions enhance our rela- tionships and keep the lines of communications open." For more information about The Apple Tree Series, visit or Pamela Ruben, a specialist on aging, is managing direc- tor of "Ruben Writes." She is a grant writer, teacher, life historian and author. Contact Pam at PamelaWritingTeach- Trade Values and Jewish ethics Each year, Susan Bern- stein, Jewish Pavilion pro- gram director, travels to Guatemala to visit with Mayan women artisans who have been trained to use their skills in weaving, beading, and crocheting to produce beautiful Judaic products that include kippot, tallitot, challah covers, and mezuzah cases. Fair Trade Values closely match Jewish ethics, making it a logical partnership for Bernstein, who sees her work with the Jewish Pavilion as a way to connect with Jewish residents in the Orlando area while educating and inform- ing non-Jewish seniors, who might choose to attend Jewish Pavilion programs. One of the Fair-Trade prin- ciples states that the artisan must receive a fair price for their product and receive payment in a timely manner. This is directly associated with the Jewish value of Linat Sachar--pay wages on time. In Deuteronomy 24:14-15 it Susan Bernstein (center) with Mayans. states, "You shall not abuse a needy or destitute laborer, whether countryman or a stranger in one of the com- munities of your land. You must pay wages on the same day, before the sun sets, for his needs and his life depend on it." For more information re- garding Mayan Judaic prod- ucts, please visit the following websites: www.mayanhands. org and www. ma Get tee'd up for Congregation Sinai's annual golf tournament Congregation Sinai will host its annual Golf Tourna- ment on Sunday, March 31, at the Green Valley Golf Course on Sunday in Clermont, Florida 34711. This tourna- ment offers lunch, plenty of awards and prizes. It is open to the public. This annual tournament includes 18 holes of golf, range balls, lunch, on-course contests, prizes and awards. Registration will begin at 8 a.m. Shotgun will start at 8:30 a.m. in a scramble format. The Green Valley County Club is located at 14601 Green Valley Boulevard in Clermont, FL 34711. Everything is included for a $55 registration fee. If desired, an extra $10 ticket includes an option for 3 mul- ligans. Payment will be due by March 26. Make checks out to Congregation Sinai's Men's Club. For further information, contact Pete Sobel at 352-989- 4900 or email: PeteSobe@ GMailcom.